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Sexy is about way more than sex. They definitely inspire him to show up for her, whatever that looks like in the moment. For when he truly receives them, they trigger his primal masculinity, strengthening him with resolve, deepening his commitment to purpose. For her to authentically offer them, she must allow herself to relax and surrender ambition to control how this moment flows, which is enlivening to her sensual feminine essence. For five years, I ached for her trust in me, but she would never fully offer it. Early in our relationship, before we had even agreed on being monogamous, she caught me in a lie which antagonized her betrayal wound.
My lie set fire to her toxic waste pond. Lots of it. Delicious physical pleasure. But without trust, neither one of us allowed ourselves to be truly vulnerable with each other. Neither of us felt safe to surrender to the blissful exchange of love energy that flows between two people in a healthy intimacy, which requires vulnerability. She gave me her body during sex, but often withheld her true heart. We looked sexy together on the outside, and we had physical pleasure, but we felt awful in our depths. Stepping fully into the brilliance of you who are, mind, body, heart and soul, in this very moment.
In my relationship, we did not feel safe to give the gift of our true selves to each other. She was persistently afraid I would abandon her, so she held back the gift of her trust and her full love. I was persistently frustrated by her attempts to control me, so I resisted completely cherishing her and showing up for her in countless ways.
We were often either dodging blame or flinging it at each other like monkey feces. She is letting go of worry, allowing herself to open and soften any walls around her sensual, feeling heart. She melts into vulnerability and offers the expression of her true self in this moment. I also trust that you will be a place of steadfast strength I can anchor to when I might otherwise be overcome by the turbulent winds of this ever-changing moment.
I offer my real self to you, relaxed and vulnerable, confident that your best self will keep me safe as I do. Whether the warm glow emanating from her lit-up eyes, the sensual swing in her confident step or the raw unbridled truth in her authentic sharing, her femininity is wildly attractive to many men. It even compels men to step deeper into their own innate masculinity. In other words, these three words can inspire a man to claim his birthright as a responsible, loving, ethical being who champions all life and passionately serves the greater good.
They routinely inspire him to not let her down. And every man wants to make his woman proud of him. Also imagine also a world in which every woman is so deeply connected to the wondrous being she already is — whole enough, worthy enough, lovable enough — that her trust in herself allows her to relax and offer her authentic feminine gifts freely to her partner because she can now trust him to always be whomever he chooses to be.
Reblogged this on Just Think. The divine feminine in me find your words healing. Thank you for sharing you wisdom and clarity. Keep Shining. By kismet it seems I was destined to read your article tonight. For my own [valid] reasons, I have had an extremely difficult time trusting him, and I know this has left him feeling stifled, small and resentful.
I believe it is also one of the reasons that drove him to seek emotional support from another woman. That was completely my fault. But I feel like without trust, our relationship is missing Three words to make a woman want you major link. I love him. Thank you for your insight. I look forward to learning more about your teachings!
I sincerely hope this little insight can support a profound shift in your relationship. I would love to hear more from you in the future as to how this unfolds. I also offer deep transformational relationship coaching for couples just like you. In any case, please feel free to keep me informed. You can me at [ protected]. Hi Bryan, I sent this link to my husband to read. My husband would never know what would trip the bomb that would blow up my trust — and yet I was at a loss as to how to relate this to Three words to make a woman want you. Thank you. And in reading your words in this post and others it pointed to me the ways in which I am in need of healing as he is.
Thank you for being so honest and open. Thank you for your insight into a man. For in seeing into him, I see myself also, and find a way to make love work. This is really great to hear, Nadine. I would love to hear how this unfolds for you both. Too bad no sane man can ever say those words to any woman, because if he does she will betray them. It makes cells radiate, resonate and vibrate.
Every time I replay this words in my mind — it takes my breath away.
Thank YOU! Trust is something that is earned, right? Sounds like a double standard to me. I do not blame her for having a hard time trusting me. For example, some people are so wounded that they cannot give trust to another even when that other has proven themselves worthy of it. Yet others are so trusting that they will trust those who have proven to be unworthy of trust.
In my case, my girlfriend had reasons not to fully trust me, but at the same time, I did so much to prove myself trustworthy.
We were dysfunctional together. Had she been able to take a risk of trusting me, I believe our relationship would have had a better chance of succeeding, because I knew my heart was loyal to her in ways she was too scared to believe. On the other hand, had I been more understanding of her fear, I would have showed up differently in ways that would have calmed her fears. We did the dance together. WE were both innocent, and both guilty. I almost completely agree with you Bryan! Powerful words none the less. A place where he is appreciated for his hard work, his input, and his dedication.
And, of course, trust begets trust, which just makes the relationship more enduring and endearing. Because her behavior would prove otherwise. She then spends money on this thing, without consulting me. There have been on numerous occasions where she has decided to implement a new discipline program for our boys. So, from my perspective, in example 1. Example 2. There is one problem with all this.
However, I can tell you there was a time when I felt real good about our relationship. Even felt like I was trusted to some degree. Sometimes I feel our relationship is more like a walk through the briar patch and all I have on is my underwear and a pair of flip-flops. That is exactly what happened in my marriage. No matter what I did or how I showed him I could be trusted; he just never did.
It really takes two people who are willing to do their own inner work, to face their own demons, to make a relationship genuinely succeed. Sometimes the best thing you can do for a partner who is not willing to do such work, is leave them. And, coming off a couple decades of lesser relationships, wherein one or both of us had work to do hurdles to overcome, crap to get rid of, etc. And I not only mean this with cheating, but with other things. First, let me comment on the cheating aspect. Women who trust their husbands or boyfriends regarding other women always later find out he is engaging in inappropriate i.
Cheating is not just about sex.
And of course this rule of cheating goes for women when their bfs or husbands get upset over her spending time with other men. The lesser, inappropriate behaviors I listed in this paragraph are the prelude to actual affairs. It is common knowledge that men are hard-wired for variety.
Your typical woman is monogamous, and she will only typically seek other men when her man is not fulfilling her needs or he abuses her somehow. So a woman wanting reassurance i. It makes him more lackadaisical. Most men are lazy these days- they are accustomed to women doing it all.
I moved to Georgia5 years ago and I am so sick of people mainly men of course…rolling my eyes…. I am a lady first and foremost. I went very educated and intellectual on his ass and explained as to what needed to be done and detailed reasons why…. I would have loved to see the look on his face when I proved I knew he was full of shit and explained why he was full of shit!!!!! I love a man helping me or doing something for me…. With that being said Three words to make a woman want you want a man not need a man need was met 26 years ago during procreation of my daughter yep I went there.
If my man has to go away for any amount of time…. He can completely focus on his pressing matters at hand and absolutely succeed…. You go Baby…. I never doubted you…I have and had complete trust and confidence you had it under control because I know how capable, creative and persistent you are! Control never creates an enjoyable relationship. It only creates relationship grounded in trickery at best, and crushing obligation at worst.
I understand very deeply and clearly the relationship tension between not wanting to be abandoned and not wanting to be controlled. Man you Rock Bryan! Thank you for sharing such a profound and deep insight into the connection between a man and a woman and sharing your experience so openly. You are a truly beautiful man. I so appreciate your honesty and truth. I can relate to what your saying entirely. Nina HUGS!!!! Bryan, you really do understand women, men and relationships.
This is absolutely true and resonated deeply with me. I have been in 3 live-in relationships and 3 dating relationships and I honestly could not come to trust any of them. Each of them let me down in fundamental ways.
The most serious violation of trust is not following through on commitments they made. The second most serious was not being open about their true feelings and being passive-aggressive. Not that I was perfect, but I tried to consistently open up a dialogue about the issues we were having in each relationship and kept being stone-walled, dismissed or gas-lighted. I really loved these men with my whole heart and would have done almost anything to keep the relationship going, but these two behaviours were a deal-breaker for me. Honesty and integrity are core requirements of a healthy adult relationship.
Without them, the relationship cannot thrive.Three words to make a woman want you
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